Wedlisted
Questions, answered.
The honest version of how Wedlisted works: where the money goes, what it costs, and what we keep. If your question is not here, write to us at hello@wedlisted.com.
For couples
Setting up your list, and how the money reaches you.
What is Wedlisted?
Wedlisted is a wedding gift list built from the plans you already have. Instead of a registry of objects, you publish a short list of goals, and a goal can be anything: the honeymoon, a house deposit, the garden, a new kitchen, a big year out, even a donation to a cause you love. Your guests give money toward them.
Every gift lands straight in your own account, so there is nothing to store, wrap, or quietly return. Setting up is free and takes a few minutes.
What can we put on our list?
Anything you're honestly saving for. Couples list honeymoons, deposits, gardens, pianos, sabbaticals, spare-room makeovers, and donations to causes they care about. A goal is a plan with a name and, if you like, a number. If it's what's next for you, it belongs on the list.
How does the money reach us?
Directly. Each gift is a payment into your own account, handled by Stripe. Wedlisted never holds your money, so there is no payout to wait on from us and no middle step.
You connect a free Stripe account once, during setup. After that every gift settles to you, and payouts, refunds, and payment questions sit with you and Stripe.
What does it cost us?
Nothing. Setting up and running your list is free, and we never take a cut of your gift. When a guest gives, a small fee (3% of the gift, capped at €1) is added on top and paid by them, so what they mean to give is what reaches you.
Card processing is added on top too and varies a little by payment method, so the final figure can drift a few cents either way. Our fee, though, always rides on top of the gift, never inside it.
Do we need a Stripe account?
Yes, and it's free. Stripe is how the money reaches you: it runs the identity checks, the payouts, and any refunds, just as it does for millions of businesses. We walk you through connecting one in a few minutes, and your list can accept gifts as soon as that's done.
Can we run the list together?
Of course. A list belongs to the couple, not to one inbox, so you can invite your partner, or a trusted helper, to manage it with you. Whoever you invite can add goals, read your guests' messages, and send thank-yous alongside you.
What currency is our list in?
One, and only one. Your list runs in a single currency, set when you connect your account, and every goal and gift uses it. We never mix currencies inside a list, so your totals always add up cleanly.
What if a goal is given more than its target?
Then you're lucky, and nothing breaks. A goal keeps accepting gifts past its target, so a generous guest is never turned away. Targets are optional anyway: you can invite gifts toward a goal without ever naming a number.
Is our data private?
Yes. We keep only what the service needs: your list, and each guest's name, message, and amount. We add no third-party analytics, no advertising pixels, and no marketing trackers, which is also why there's no cookie banner. Card details never touch us; they live only with Stripe.
Can we export or delete our data?
Yes to both. Your settings include a download of your list and its gift records, and a delete-account action. Deleting your account removes your list, its goals, and the gift records along with it.
For guests
Giving a gift, with no account and no fuss.
Is it safe to give?
Yes. Your card details go straight to Stripe, one of the world's largest payment companies, and never touch Wedlisted. Your gift is a direct payment into the couple's own account, so the money goes exactly where you mean it to.
Do I need an account?
No. There's nothing to join and no password to invent. You choose a goal, write a note if you like, and give. The whole thing takes about a minute.
What is the fee, and who pays it?
A small fee (3% of your gift, never more than €1) is added on top, and you pay it. That way the couple receives the full gift you intended: on a €100 gift, €100 goes to them. Card processing is added on top too. The couple is charged nothing, and Wedlisted never takes a slice of the gift itself.
Can I give any amount, or cover a whole goal?
Either, gladly. Chip in toward the honeymoon or cover the greenhouse outright. Goals keep accepting gifts even after they're met, so generosity is never turned away.
Are gifts refundable?
Refunds go through the couple. Each gift settles directly into their own account and Wedlisted never holds the money, so we can't reverse a gift ourselves. If something has gone wrong, tell the couple and they can arrange a refund through Stripe.
Will the couple know the gift is from me?
Yes, and that's rather the point. Your name, your message, and the amount are shared with the couple so they can thank you properly. Your email is used only for your receipt and their thank-you, nothing else.